Sometimes You Just Gotta Let Go-

Sometimes you just have to let a person or thing go. Just as simple as that. Let the reason that detached you from the person or thing help guide you to something better that you want to hold on to! Z-

Sometimes you have to let people go...it's as simple as that. In life you find that it's very short. When and as you get older you start to think of the things that you really want in life. I know I have. As far as relationships I have some regrets on giving people so many chances to not change.

Sometimes we wait when in reality the person can't be forced to change. I have learned that I can only take time to change myself for the better and I can't sit around bitter with others because I am in control of my own life.

I was in a very long relationship with a man that had so many issues and I am learning to let go. The experience made me a lot stronger but it also made me weak in a lot of aspects of my life. It feels good to let go finally when you have held on to something for so long.

I refuse to be lied too. cheated on, along with any other crappy things that people tend to do to others because of lack of care for there own being. I refuse to let someone control my life and play mind games with me or try to intimidate my intelligence to there ignorance. I got so tired of letting him hurt me and being sad over something I knew he was not going to do anyway.

God is all that matters in my life. He will not leave to alone in life. He has so many plans for me and I am so excited to start to seek all that God has created just for me. When you start to build your relationship with God he shows you things you may not of seen before.

My thoughts are if you are in a relationship that has you crying more than smiling, wondering more than being trusting and confident you may not be in the best relationship. God has designed someone for everyone and at times if you can be alone building a more intimate relationship with God he will speak to you and show you things you have never dreamed of.

I just hold out my hand for God because I will follow him and what he has for me. I'm in no rush I just want to build my relationship with God.

Sometimes I sit back and wonder how a MAN can be so insensitive to someones feelings. Don't ever forget that Man was not created to be perfect. Only GOD holds the key of perfection.

How can they be so selfish and inconsiderate to just life and someone Else's heart? I will never let myself let anyone hurt me continuously. My limits to others that have been hurtful has changed. Why be weary and stressed over someone that has shown you nothing but the worse anyways. Don't expect better from someone that has shown no action to care to change for his self or for life in general.

Just remember that God is the ultimate lover. He will never leave or forsake you in any situation.

You can't tell everyone...

"That's what friends are for"

A single rose can be my garden... a single friend, my world.  ~Leo Buscaglia



You know sometimes a real friend and an associate can get equal definitions. Let me first off tell you what a real friend is. A real friends listens no matter what you are talking about, they don't judge, they will accept early morning or late night phone calls. They are encouraging, dependable, trusting, and you should not be limited to what you tell them. A real friend is someone you should be able to tell EVERYTHING and ANYTHING to.

Growing up my Father and Mother use to tell me that you will only have a couple real friends and maybe just one. I never believed that because growing up I had a lot of friends and I just thought it would carry out to my adulthood. I know now that friends don't come by the dozen in my world but you do come accross people that you get to meet at work and different community places that you may become friends with which is fine but too you have to be careful what you say to people you don't know that well.

A loyal friend laughs at your jokes when they're not so good, and sympathizes with your problems when they're not so bad.  ~Arnold H. Glasgow

Spend time with people and get to know there character and see where there humblness lays. I know it seems like I am rambling on but the point is there some people who you can talk to and some you can't. If you come accross someone in your life that you can't tell everything to then um.. that's not a friend in my book. Who wants a friend they can only tell bits and pieces to? Not me. I want a friend that I have no limit of conversation. Someone I can depend on to always be there for me and comfort me. I don't need any one to judge me because God is in control of that when it's my time.

Read about friends...click on this link below:

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Friendship

Frienship is precious and delicate. I will talk more on this topic later but I just wanted to put some thought and feeling out here. Be careful who to tell things to because sometimes you can't tell people everything and some people that seem to be your friend are around to pick information to take it to another person. If you have a best friend do all you can to show that person that you care and that you love them and accept all of them. Good friends are hard to come by so when you have one that you have shared your most inner thoughts too it was told to them for that reason. A real friend loves you when you are low and helps bring you back up higer than you ever thought you could go before.

But if the while I think on thee, dear friend,
All losses are restored and sorrows end.
~William Shakespeare

A friend is like a flower,
a rose to be exact,
Or maybe like a brand new gate
that never comes unlatched.
A friend is like an owl,
both beautiful and wise.
Or perhaps a friend is like a ghost,
whose spirit never dies.
A friend is like a heart that goes
strong until the end.
Where would we be in this world
if we didn't have a friend. - By Adrianne S